Experience Real Relationship

We are so glad that you are here and want to help you get connected into Real Relationship!  We’ve got groups all over town with people who are growing in relationship with Jesus and each other! Send us a message below and we’ll help you find a group.

We ask that anyone who wants to join a Group first attend our RLM 101 class.  This class helps us make sure we are all aligned and pushing in the same direction.  It is a great place to get a picture of where Real Life began, what we care about and how we strive to carry out the mission Jesus has entrusted to us.

What to Expect/Group Guidelines

THIS IS A SAFE GROUP – We will all do our part to create an environment where everyone can be real, open and honest with their struggles and victories

CONFIDENTIALITY IS KEY – What is said in the group stays in the group

NO CROSSTALK – Crosstalk is a conversation that leaves others out / No side conversations / Listen while others are speaking (if you want to explore more of what someone said, call or talk to them afterwards. This also builds relationship outside of the group time)

NO FIXING OR RESCUING – We are not here to fix each other, Jesus does that part  / Give encouragement, speak truth, point to Jesus / Life is a journey, allow people to struggle – grow

CREATE OPPORTUNITY FOR EVERYONE TO SHARE – Be sensitive about the amount of time you share / Allow time for others to be a part of the discussion, don’t be a first responder

USE “I” VS. “WE” OR “THEM” STATEMENTS – This is a time for us as individuals to grow / Work on honesty, transparency, authenticity

BE COMMITTED TO RESOLVE CONFLICT BIBLICALLY – As humans we will need to extend grace to one another. Conflict is not bad, but an opportunity for growth. We are all being changed to be more like Jesus so conflict and change are part of the journey.

Here are some key scriptures to refer to:
– If someone sins against you. (Matthew 18:15-20) – Restoring someone in sin. (Galatians 6:1-5)
– Forgive a sinner. (Colossians 3:12-13)
– Reconciling di erences. (Matthew 5:23-24)

HOUSE RULES – (slightly different in each home) – Honor group start and end times / Kid safety guidelines and clean up